parsonage, usually right next door to the church. Because of her somewhat negative experiences with that, we determined that we would be frequent in extending hospitality, but that our home would be our home, a refuge, not an extension of the church, not a place for church business. Therefore, it was not a place for phone calls unless they were of a social nature or an emergency. “So every year at the annual meeting, after I make my report, I make a statement of appreciation for the people’s love